Did you really think that this dating site was legit?

Did you really think that this dating site was legit?

Did you believe that the owners of the site really talk to god and he talks back to them? People are so gullible when it comes to god. What were you people thinkin’ anyway?

Worst Experience

I know someone who was on ChristianMingle. I did not meet him from that site, and I dated him for a bit over 2 months. I am not scorned. I am simply sharing my experience with someone who was on that site, hopefully to get them to understand some of the people that are on that site and how some hide behind a site with « Christian » in the name. He was charming, witty, put forth all of his positive attributes. He told me he had been single, was previously married, and he had children. We met thru a site called bpm. We corresponded for a month prior to talking on the phone. We agreed to meet and long story short, there was chemistry, but I was reserved and wanted to take things slow.

I asked him about his marriage and he was kind of evasive about it. Well he had been married and divorced 4 times. I still agreed to be open to continuing to get to know him, when I should’ve run the other way. After a month, he wanted me to move in with him, offered me a key, I told him that we needed to take things slow, we weren’t ready. Now he did tell me he had been single and he mentioned all of the reasons why he broke off his last relationship. The truth was he dumped her for me and I had no idea. He was controlling, argumentative, and pushy. He wanted me with him all the time. He would do drive bys past my mother’s home to see if I was there, he would blow up my phone.

This was all after 2 months. He was a pathological liar. He had lied on the ex, her and I ended up talking and the picture that he painted of her being this nasty, disgusting, dirty woman who only cared about herself was all lies. It I s how I found out that he dumped her to be with me. I had no idea at all. I’m not sure what was up with that exes self-esteem, but she had shared with me that was the 2nd time he had dumped her and they had met from Christian mingle. She shared with me that she was still in love with him and that she told him not to have sex with me and he told her he wouldn’t.

Their situation (the relationship with that last ex-girlfriend) violent, according to what the last ex-wife said

I laughed and told her that was a complete lie, because the man had offered me a key, introduced me to his mom (I didn’t expect it, he sprung it on me), and explained to her that I no longer wanted to be with him. Also he had a record of assault for beating that last ex-wife while she was 4 months pregnant. I’m sharing all of this to say, don’t get fooled into believing that just because a site has « Christian » in it, will mean that the people on there don’t have a ton of issues, maybe more than the average dating site. Be careful, be cautious, because you could meet a man like him, or teen hookups a female with extremely low self-esteem.

ChristianMingle is not so Christian. I have spam from them many times a day. This is supposed to be illegal.